For me a 10 is kinda dark. I've used them but I don't like to. At night, or in other dark places, a 10 isn't that bad, but out in the sun a 10 is just too dark for me.
A 9 (for me) is a pretty good choice and is what I've used for a pretty long time. I like the old style Lincoln Super Visibility lenses better than any I've tried, but I do not like or use any of their new lens made now days. A 9 has never burned my eyes and I've welded stick for many hours at a time for many years with one.
An 8 is too bright for me no matter what I'm welding on or welding with. When I shut my eyes I can see bright spots so I know its too light. I've tried many 8 shade lenses over the years but I've never been able to use any of them for very long without my eyes hurting.
Now days I use a battery powered auto darkening lens and I find I don't want to ever go back to a standard dark glass. I can dial-in whatever shade I want to use at anytime and that makes it very nice for me when under changing conditions. That I can recommend fully to everyone. They are a very nice lens IMO.
Whatever lens you choose you need one that blocks 100% UVa/UVb rays. I can't say much about now days but used to be many cheaper lens didn't do that. They were like only 80% blocking and I didn't like that.
All I can say is Protect your eyes - whatever the cost.
Good luck man